My name is Jeremy Say,[Punk Chopstick's brother - bet you didn't know she even had one] and since she's gonna be sitting for the most important exam of her life soon, I'll be writing in her place for a week or so. Just to let you know.
Well I
Well he and I are kinda related in a way.
What way?
I'm so glad you asked. You see, we both have the same taste in girls. Bad news for Me.
Now, allow my stereotypical story to begin. I'll start from the beginning since it always seems like a good place to start. (As if lah starting in the middle is an option.) On the 24th of October, 1995, I was born. Haha ok, no, seriously. It started when this girl, Hannah*, smiled at me on the bus which we've been riding on for a year, I never took much notice of her until that moment.
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| Oh wow [Disclaimer: Jeremy did not put this. I, your lovable Punk Chopsticks, did. Enjoy!] |
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| Would you say yes to this? |
I gave her a bottle of paper hearts. On the blue hearts, I wrote 'Be mine?' on the red hearts was written 'Yes' and on the black hearts I wrote 'No.' After two weeks, she gave me a red heart. I assumed that meant yes to my question, but you know...I'm a guy, I don't think. Period. So when her friend went like 'Ehhhhh Its so pretty! Can you give it to me?', I uh, did. In front of her.
It didn't look like it mattered much to Hannah at the time, but it did. And she made a point to let me know that :
- Say Wei Yin
- Sorry bout giving the heart away.
October 19Hannah- Hmm. I think u doesn't need that heart anymore rite. I'm giving u that heart because I wanna give you the answer for that questions . Still remember that questions? But never mind laa. Everything is done already just now and the heart is gone. Tq for doing that to me .
That night, I went to the back of her house and asked her sister to pass the phone to Hannah, but she wouldn't look out her window, I stood there trying to get a chance to apologize.
It's only gotten worse since then... She told me she liked me soon after.
- Say Wei Yin
- Eh do you like me or not?
A week later...
Hannah- I'm so sorry. I don't think that we can be together. Hmm . I don't want to think about this anymore. I want to focus on
my study. I hope u won't disturb me n my sis. I hope u understand. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to hurt u but the truth is I'm hurt right now and not because of you. Don't worry I'm already forgive u. I'm not interested with this anymore. I hope u will happy with your life and I hope that Joe also happy with his girlfriend. I'm not perfect and not good enough for u all. I know who i am. Thanks a lot for your love and care. I know one day u will forget me. I know u can. There are many girls outside there that u can get. U don't know what I feel right now and stop asked me why I like Joe because I can't answer that questions. Sorry again. I hope u won't hate me because it will hurt me more. I need to do this. I need to sacrifice for our own good. All things that i've done have their own reasons . Believe me
I've asked her to be my girlfriend but she's yet to give me an answer, even with my sisters great advice, oh yeah it's that good. I can't seem to be able to get her. Just last night while I was kinda crazy, I called her up and asked her why she wouldn't say yes.
Me : Why wont you say yes?
Hannah: Because im confused.
Me : why are you confused?
Hannah: Because right now I like you and Joe but right now he already has a girlfriend.
So I'm her second choice and that isn't even good enough.
Someone tell me, please, why do girls do this?
46 footprints:
you just got friend zoned
so ur not a girl? ==
thanks for your nice comment! im 16 btw :) nice blog!!
dori_lukey yea, sucks right?
Anonymous- Nah, im posting this in place of punk chopsticks cause she's having a major exam soon.
Jessica- No problem (=
oh mann
@noura haha why?
You deserve so much better. Some girls start off confused and they always stay that way.
You sound pretty awesome. I think you should find someone as cool as you are :)
Good luck-
Elisa
Haha my first real comment of the day. Actually, you've no idea how much that means to me. I've been feeling pretty low lately. Thanks alot (=
aww...don't worry so much about girls right now. It sounds like she's jealous, young, and playing games. She's enjoying the chase and you're falling right into her trap. Live life, have fun, and wait for the perfect girl to come along. :)
oh, how greedy.. :( it's kinda sad to be the second choice. Hmm.. I think 'you' should give her some more time to sort out her feeling. And 'you're' still young la deh.. Good luck! :) hehe
@Little Miss Fun: I'm replying for Jeremy's stead. Ahahahahahah so true!!!I keep telling him that but does he listen? NO. Ah well, lifes like that. Thanks for the great advice btw!!!
@Joey: LOL again, I'm replying for my bro since he's not around. I KNOW RIGHT???? Gah!!! nothing makes me madder than a girl who plays around with my bro....grrrrrrr. LOL nvm lah, like you said. He's still young. Has something like this ever happen to you before?
hey thanks for your comments!!! you're so cool i like it!!! following you now.. hope to hear more from you! greetings from Italy. xoxo, Haus of Gala
Hi meg!!! LOL thanks! Lots of love from malaysia too
Move on. Never settle for number two :)
yes, i've experienced this before. :( There's this one guy who liked me and my friend, he said he couldn't choose between me n her too. The guy was a player and truthfully he wasn't worth the trouble. In the end, he found another girl to be his gf. Zz
DUDE ~
You want girls to want you?
I'm gonna give you the best advice you'll ever get:
Buy the three movies starring James Dean: "East Of Eden", "Rebel Without A Cause", and "Giant".
Watch those movies over and over and over again, until you can do "James Dean" in your sleep.
Then forget all that and just "be yourself". (And you'll be "that".)
In other words... girls can't resist the guys who appear not to give a hoot about them. Be intelligent, be passionate about important things, and say little. The "mystery" about you will drive them insane!
One mo' thang - and very important - treat EVERYONE with respect; never fall into the trap of thinking you are ultimately superior to ANYONE, because you're not. God created us all in His image and He doesn't play favorites.
Emotions are real, they reflect genuine perceptions - never, ever toy with them.
If you want to attract women, be a "mystery" to them - women LOVE "mysteries".
But be "real", be true to yourself, because karma is a bitch. And remember that there are things in "this world" more important and more worthy of your attention than girls.
And you'll follow every word of my advice if you want to end up like me... old and... alone and... lonely.
I hope I have been of some help, Brother.
~ D-FensDogg
'Loyal American Underground'
Jaya j- you're definitely right. :)
Joey kuan- I guess something we've all learnt is that guys aren't a-holes, but that doesn't mean girls are them either. Guess what I can say is sometimes, people can be a-holes.
Stephen T.McCarthy- haha how you say you'll end up all ol and alone, you sem to have really good advice. Well it seems like great advice, at least to me, really good advice btw man thanks alot.
Not to be mean..but if a girl is torn between you and the other guy, i think it's time to get your ass out of that mess...it's not worth being in such mess and then end up as second option..been in that similar situation but once i found out, i asked that girl to f off from my life and I lived happily ever after but i can't say the same for her (yeah, i did some stalking back then out of curiosity)
Why girls like that? Guys can be equally like that as well. Might as well say why humans like that ah?
I can say you are actually pretty lucky to found out about it earlier. Imagine few months later when that Joe guy gets available, it's hard to judge ur relationship with Hannah anymore..And who knows in that few months, u can get an even better girl that Hannah right?
Man, this is a pretty awesome post for someone who doesn't seem too old. Girls are a melt, and the sooner you realise that they aren't worth worrying about (I'm not saying they aren't worth existing or anything), the better. Girls will come and go and I never believed that for ages but some day you will.
I'm now following your blog Punk Chopsticks! It seems like there's a lot of good stuff on here and I want to read more good posts. As for your comment, I posted I was a near-university student before getting my grades and joining. Now I'm still only a near-university student as I don't attend very often! Haha, nice blog anyway, keep up with the good work!
Oh and I love Doctor Who too by the way! I miss David Tennant so much though!
Yeah, your definitely right, I am quite lucky that I stopped trying to get her now. Like you said, who knows what kind of emotional torture I would have to go through if Joe got single. Thanks a lot :) I think what you said will keep thoughts about her off my mind.
How rude of her! I think you can DEFINITELY do better than her.
Your idea of the black and red hearts was brilliant but when she reached out with the red heart and you just casually gave it away to someone else....well that is one of those things you can't really ever take back. It's like she came to you and you smacked her down for it. I don't see you saving this one. Move on and remember this for the next girl.
@Cora: CORA!!! My brother isn't around so I'm answering on his behalf and you just hit the nail on the head! That girls just makes me angry, makes me angry just thinking about her. And the thing was, that bottle (THAT Bottle) was MINE!
Grrrrrrrrrrr
Nothing makes me madder than a girl who plays with my little brother's feelings
@Cal: (Answering on behalf of my brother) LOL I know right! And he's such a sweety x) I'm trying to let him know that chick isn't worth your time but seriously....one second he's fed up, and then the minute his heart starts getting better again, he just dives right back in. Can you say knocking your head against a brick wall? Man!
Move on bro . Your are to young to be hung up on one girl. Good luck.
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@jerzey72 definitely. Though it kinda sucks cause i just got over a really bad breakup. thanks for the good luck though (=
I make comments on many sites but I never get such great messages back like I do from you. Thanks for being an awesome blogger and I hope a good friend in the future. Now can I know you first name. I want to do a profile on you on my blog.
Dude, if she likes you and your friend, then she's not worth it. trust me. Find someone else.
I'm sure everything will work out. You've just got to believe in yourself and your love! Sometimes persistence is the key to happiness, but not unfortunately to a jail cell you might end up in for too much.
@Cal: LOl Thanks!!!! And that has got to be the best compliment I've ever received (And if not then it's definitely up there with the big kids)
@Areesha: Replying for my bro. LOL I know right. Keep telling him the same thing. Ah well...people will have to hurt, to learn, to grow xD
@Ben: Thanks for the advice! LOL and no....not jail x)
I know the feeling. My friend's 'boy-friend/best friend' just uses her and she refuses to believe that.
i swear you will laugh about when she realizes what she has lost.. doesnt help now,but sry she cannot be that cool and lovely and whatnot if she claims to be into two boys at the same time!Recondider bro,
you are far too clever btw
and say good luck for the examas to your darling sister
xxx
Maybe you would be more attractive to her if you too had a girlfriend.
Ohhh. Poor darling! I'm an older sister too and so you absolutely remind me of my little brother who's only two years younger. I think the only thing to do is just to tell her that you weren't thinking about it... and then it's up to her.
Live and learn and good luck in the future.
@Areesha: LOL NOOOOOOOO....
She still doesn't come to terms with it? Well....ergh, I hate to say this but maybe in her case, ignorance is bliss....At least until she wakes up. Then that'll suck.
@Loulou: (Replying on behalf of my br) THank!! Ahahahha thats What I Said!! xD Ah well, its all part of the growing up process
@Snowbrush: ahahahahaha finally some wicked words of wisdom.
@Aki: SO YOU KNOW THE FRUSTRATION xDD LOL I'd love to see your brother some day
WoW ! How old is .. jeremy ? And thanks a lot for voting my friend and also thanks for dropping by every now and then. =) LOL from a Michelicious story
Dear Jeremy,
Where do I begin? To put down into words your dilemma was brave. You show courage, not desperation as comically you sometimes successfully endeavored. To accept what she wishes, which is for you to be a better friend, than become a better lover, will make you later in your boyhood a better lover for sure. How precocious of her to be allowed to live without having to be distracted by love. When she does come around to needing your friendship, and she will, she will see that your friendship exceeds any other, and this then is where your friendship will blossom into love.
For now she has the job of bringing light into the world through territories yet uncharted. If you force your love toward her before she is ready, which she has indicated she is not ready, one thing will happen for certain. She will ask cupid to shoot an arrow into your heart, cupid will shoot as per her request, but cupid will strike you in the head, instead of the heart.
Dude your over thinking this one.
I have so many more lovers because I was their friend first, than had I, if I had become confused and angry at first.
Be a great friend first, this makes you a better lover later. Every young girl wants a good friend first to become their great lover later.
In answer to the previous blog. Being a great friend is sexy.
@mich- 16 this year, yeah i know im still a kid.
@The Tusk- hey your advice really makes sense. but the last time i told one of my female friends i liked her, she sort of shot me down. i lost a friend. Maybe thats why your advice seems to make sense, i should be a better friend than force my love upon someone.
true, true. But hopefully that ass will come around and realize what a great girl she is.
Dear Jeremy
As this is going to sound like absolute hogwash so I hope you will give it a cursory glance at least in the hope that it will make sense to your before the world comes crashing down in 2012.
There is not much to pursue in why girls do what they do any more than there is to rediscover in boys being their peculiar selves.
This is a time for the skinning of your knees. But each scar bears also the promise of strengthening your resolve as much as waving the white flag, and twixt the two is a matter for you to decide. The wounds don't matter more than the journey or the destination. They are for the sharpening of your better self. None of us who have journeyed far have been spared the stubbing of our toes.
Adversity is your best welfare at times, mate. And as you watch all those football heroes and tall suave chaps sweep the teenage dreamgirls off their feet, what may be hidden from you is that being the kind of guy that a REAL woman wants is not borne on inertia. Dig in a bit and see what it is you may have to offer, and then be selective about the swine before which you cast your pearls.
Being well, for want of a better word, 'desirable', cannot be taken for granted. You need to muster it and make it happen and yet, it is not a commodity for trade and bargaining, but a yield to one person whom you take to share your eventualities with. If you want genuinity that is.
Just seek ye first that which endures, and the rest shall indeed be added unto you.
All that having been said, if our pseudo intellectualisation of the Mayan calendar is right, you don't have long to shoulder this yoke.
"Excuse me, my lady, but would you care for some gum? Oh, wait, nevermind. I see you've got plenty."
I sucked ass at writing when I was 16. You're way better than I was. Keep it up, kid.
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hmm..she just confuse..u r her r not meant to be together..whatever it is..that's really hurt..hmm..
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